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> <channel><title>Comments on: Rejection: A Writer&#8217;s Best Friend?</title> <atom:link href="/rejection-a-writers-best-friend/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://www.carriemumford.com/rejection-a-writers-best-friend/</link> <description>Writer, Editor &#38; Website Consultant</description> <lastBuildDate>Fri, 15 Feb 2013 13:46:54 +0000</lastBuildDate> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.1</generator> <item><title>By: Carrie Mumford</title><link>http://www.carriemumford.com/rejection-a-writers-best-friend/#comment-3951</link> <dc:creator>Carrie Mumford</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sat, 14 Jul 2012 15:38:26 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.carriemumford.com/?p=2437#comment-3951</guid> <description><![CDATA[Glad you found it useful, Alexis! You raise a really good point: it&#039;s hard for those around creative types to understand rejection. You&#039;ve given me an idea for a new post. Thank you!]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Glad you found it useful, Alexis! You raise a really good point: it&#8217;s hard for those around creative types to understand rejection. You&#8217;ve given me an idea for a new post. Thank you!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Alexis Marie Chute</title><link>http://www.carriemumford.com/rejection-a-writers-best-friend/#comment-3948</link> <dc:creator>Alexis Marie Chute</dc:creator> <pubDate>Mon, 09 Jul 2012 07:24:09 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.carriemumford.com/?p=2437#comment-3948</guid> <description><![CDATA[Rejection is a major hurtle. I find these suggestions really helpful. A few non-artist individuals in my support network read this post after I sent it to them and I think it gave them more insight in how to encourage me. Thank you!]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Rejection is a major hurtle. I find these suggestions really helpful. A few non-artist individuals in my support network read this post after I sent it to them and I think it gave them more insight in how to encourage me. Thank you!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Carrie M</title><link>http://www.carriemumford.com/rejection-a-writers-best-friend/#comment-1690</link> <dc:creator>Carrie M</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 25 Mar 2012 16:00:12 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.carriemumford.com/?p=2437#comment-1690</guid> <description><![CDATA[Thanks for stopping by to read it!]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks for stopping by to read it!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: jolynproject</title><link>http://www.carriemumford.com/rejection-a-writers-best-friend/#comment-1685</link> <dc:creator>jolynproject</dc:creator> <pubDate>Fri, 23 Mar 2012 16:12:56 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.carriemumford.com/?p=2437#comment-1685</guid> <description><![CDATA[This is a wonderful way to look at rejection not only when writing words but in life overall as well. Thanks for writing this.]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is a wonderful way to look at rejection not only when writing words but in life overall as well. Thanks for writing this.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Carrie M</title><link>http://www.carriemumford.com/rejection-a-writers-best-friend/#comment-1328</link> <dc:creator>Carrie M</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 22:50:13 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.carriemumford.com/?p=2437#comment-1328</guid> <description><![CDATA[Thanks J.S. - I wholeheartedly agree! I don&#039;t talk about my rejections in public often, but each one does make me a little bit stronger (or thickens my skin even more).]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks J.S. &#8211; I wholeheartedly agree! I don&#8217;t talk about my rejections in public often, but each one does make me a little bit stronger (or thickens my skin even more).</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Carrie M</title><link>http://www.carriemumford.com/rejection-a-writers-best-friend/#comment-1327</link> <dc:creator>Carrie M</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 22:48:19 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.carriemumford.com/?p=2437#comment-1327</guid> <description><![CDATA[I couldn&#039;t agree more! I think I&#039;d give self-publishing a try if I was receiving lots of rejections that said something along the lines of &#039;we don&#039;t see a market for this piece&#039; though. There are those niche books that are hard for publishers to place.
I also don&#039;t mind that it sometimes takes a few months to hear back from a publisher - that space from my story often makes it easier for me to find the gaps (or the strengths) when I go back to it after a response from a publisher.
Thanks for stopping by!]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I couldn&#8217;t agree more! I think I&#8217;d give self-publishing a try if I was receiving lots of rejections that said something along the lines of &#8216;we don&#8217;t see a market for this piece&#8217; though. There are those niche books that are hard for publishers to place.</p><p>I also don&#8217;t mind that it sometimes takes a few months to hear back from a publisher &#8211; that space from my story often makes it easier for me to find the gaps (or the strengths) when I go back to it after a response from a publisher.</p><p>Thanks for stopping by!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Simon Whaley</title><link>http://www.carriemumford.com/rejection-a-writers-best-friend/#comment-1325</link> <dc:creator>Simon Whaley</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 14:14:48 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.carriemumford.com/?p=2437#comment-1325</guid> <description><![CDATA[As the author of The Positively Productive Writer, I have to agree with what you say here. The other point I&#039;d like to make is that many writers perceive rejection to be the end of the story, but if you don&#039;t let rejection get you down, it can be the start of a whole new relationship.
For more information about The Positively Productive Writer see my website, or Amazon.com: http://www.amazon.com/Positively-Productive-Writer-Simon-Whaley/dp/1846948517/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;qid=1328796800&amp;sr=8-1]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As the author of The Positively Productive Writer, I have to agree with what you say here. The other point I&#8217;d like to make is that many writers perceive rejection to be the end of the story, but if you don&#8217;t let rejection get you down, it can be the start of a whole new relationship.</p><p>For more information about The Positively Productive Writer see my website, or Amazon.com: <a
href="http://www.amazon.com/Positively-Productive-Writer-Simon-Whaley/dp/1846948517/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&#038;qid=1328796800&#038;sr=8-1" rel="nofollow">http://www.amazon.com/Positively-Productive-Writer-Simon-Whaley/dp/1846948517/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&#038;qid=1328796800&#038;sr=8-1</a></p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: 4amWriter</title><link>http://www.carriemumford.com/rejection-a-writers-best-friend/#comment-1324</link> <dc:creator>4amWriter</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 10:07:47 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.carriemumford.com/?p=2437#comment-1324</guid> <description><![CDATA[Wonderful post, Carrie!
I used to be terrified of rejections. I would start sending out queries, then after like the third one I would tell myself something is wrong with the book. So, I&#039;d stop querying and go back to the book, which was a safer place for me to be.
I&#039;m not sure how I made that leap over the fire, but now I&#039;ve returned to querying and stopped messing around with my book.
I think you are &quot;oh so right&quot; about what a rejection really means. This is why I get a little miffed at people who get rejected, don&#039;t bother to ask themselves &quot;why,&quot; blame the agents and the process, and go self-publish wthout seriously rethinking their ms. For the most part, these are the &quot;authors&quot; who simply weren&#039;t ready in the first place, and that is why they got rejected.
We can&#039;t forget that in most cases (sure some slip through) publishers and agents know what they&#039;re doing and will snap up a good ms when they see it. One round of rejections isn&#039;t enough to say &quot;oh well, I&#039;ll just self-publish and show them!&quot;]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Wonderful post, Carrie!</p><p>I used to be terrified of rejections. I would start sending out queries, then after like the third one I would tell myself something is wrong with the book. So, I&#8217;d stop querying and go back to the book, which was a safer place for me to be.</p><p>I&#8217;m not sure how I made that leap over the fire, but now I&#8217;ve returned to querying and stopped messing around with my book.</p><p>I think you are &#8220;oh so right&#8221; about what a rejection really means. This is why I get a little miffed at people who get rejected, don&#8217;t bother to ask themselves &#8220;why,&#8221; blame the agents and the process, and go self-publish wthout seriously rethinking their ms. For the most part, these are the &#8220;authors&#8221; who simply weren&#8217;t ready in the first place, and that is why they got rejected.</p><p>We can&#8217;t forget that in most cases (sure some slip through) publishers and agents know what they&#8217;re doing and will snap up a good ms when they see it. One round of rejections isn&#8217;t enough to say &#8220;oh well, I&#8217;ll just self-publish and show them!&#8221;</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: J.S. Marlo</title><link>http://www.carriemumford.com/rejection-a-writers-best-friend/#comment-1322</link> <dc:creator>J.S. Marlo</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 07:28:12 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.carriemumford.com/?p=2437#comment-1322</guid> <description><![CDATA[While rejection letters may not be very romantic, they do hold a certain appeal. They are &quot;battle scars&quot;. It means you tried and didn&#039;t give up the fight.
And that&#039;s something to be proud of.]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>While rejection letters may not be very romantic, they do hold a certain appeal. They are &#8220;battle scars&#8221;. It means you tried and didn&#8217;t give up the fight.</p><p>And that&#8217;s something to be proud of.</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Carrie M</title><link>http://www.carriemumford.com/rejection-a-writers-best-friend/#comment-1321</link> <dc:creator>Carrie M</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 09 Feb 2012 01:55:26 +0000</pubDate> <guid
isPermaLink="false">http://www.carriemumford.com/?p=2437#comment-1321</guid> <description><![CDATA[Thanks Susan!]]></description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks Susan!</p> ]]></content:encoded> </item> </channel> </rss>